While, many turn to others, to help them, address perceived, and/ or, real, personal challenges, and/ or, things, they would like to improve, unless/ until, one is ready, willing, and able, as well as personally – committed, to proactively, using well – considered, principles of self – help, most will never become the best, they might possible be! It is important to understand, and, recognize, what is most essential, and relevant, to one person, may have less significance, for another! Therefore, there is no such thing, as, one – size – fits – all, and, if, you aren’t willing, to consistently, take advantage of these personal development principles, for your own best interests, you will probably, be challenged to becoming, the best, you can be! With that in mind, this article will attempt to, briefly, consider, examine, review, and discuss, 6 keys to achieving, what you seek, from using, self – help techniques, and principles.
1. Know/ identify your personal strengths and weaknesses: Take the time, at the onset of this process, to clearly, and objectively, identify, understand, and knoe, your true strengths, and weaknesses! How can you better, take advantage of any strength, and/ or, address areas of weakness, and become, a better – you, if you don’t begin, this way?
2. Check – up from neck – up: Are you willing to commit to, conducting a thorough, objective, check – up, from the neck – up, so you know, yourself, better, than before? Can you be thorough, objective, and honest, with yourself, so you know, what you want, and/ or, need, to change and address?
3. Open – minded/ objective introspection: Making self – help, more relevant, and valuable, by proceeding, with thorough, objectivity, and introspection! Don’t make the mistake of fooling yourself, so, proceed, in an open – minded, way, to become your personal best!
4. Use affirmations: Affirmations are positive, personal statements, used, to enhance our willingness, and ability, to proactively, proceed, forward, to become the best, we might, possibly, be! These must be written, in the present tense, and stated, in an affirmative, positive manner!
5. Discipline/ commitment: This is not a quick process, if done correctly! Rather, achieving the desired objectives, requires, a combination, of true commitment, and exemplary, discipline! Many fail to be able, or willing, to do so!
6. Want to improve: How important is it, to a specific individual, to improve, I the specified areas, he considers, priorities? For self – help, to make a real difference, one must, truly, want to improve, in a deeply, personally, self – motivating manner!
Do you believe, there may be, areas of your life/ existence, where using self – help, might offer, valuable, personal assistance? Will you focus, on trying to be, the best, you can be, if that’s important, to you?