The question is whether double dating is right or wrong and I have been looking to find even an iota of benefit to dating two women at the same time, there are so many ways to put it…trying two women at the same time, seeing two girls at the same time and countless other ways beautiful girls and handsome boys coin the phrase depending on how they are feeling.
Girls do double date, but we are looking at the reasons why guys double date also, the benefits…the loss. I want to talk about this without crossing the thin line between morality and reality, It appears to be morally wrong to double date, the simple act could light up the flame that may consumed a beautiful relationship leaving you with gross feeling of irresponsibility. Normally, girls don’t take it lightly when they see you flirting with another girl.
They expect you to channel your entire focus on them, they expect you to love and care for them, look out for them, and be there for them. They want all of you…all of a guy and a very faint misgiving is termed “double dating” and as it appears, this is no wrong motive as men and women feel the same way. we all have that desire to fully posses another…once we are in love with them…we want all of them and fight intruder with every ounce of strength we got.
I told guys it is so right to have an alternative! Women may not like it, they may not fancy it, they might feel like putting me up against Mike Tyson for suggesting that…but without a tool through which jealousy is spurred in women, they would often mess up. women want all of you and yet when you give it to them, they find you tasteless and colorless…why do the nice guys always complaining…? why do they get rejected often and they are the only few that give their best.
They say it the way they feel it, the nice guys tell women the exact way they feel about them…they compliment women…tell them how pretty they look and how they want to hang out with them all year and all month and why do women stick to rough rugged bad guy who probably got other girls on his list – there are two reasons, first, ruggedness attracts and they know the perfect way to create jealousy in women, if you can do that you can keep any woman you want…hence double dating could be looked at from a different angle.
Let me dilute the concept a little bit…you must find a way to give your girlfriend the impression that there are other girls that are waiting to grab you if she mess up, without doing that, she may not leave but she would feel like she is stuck in no man’s land…you know those feelings. When no one is interested in what you are gunning for, you think less worth of it. Women buckle up when you have options, they walk hard to keep you but when you are all for them, when there are no prying eyes, she feels free to behave anyhow.
Double dating is a way to create jealousy in women…like I said, if she is the only one interested in you she would feel stuck in no man’s land…women love competition, it keeps them going, so to keep women you must find a way to look competitive no matter how small a growth you could garner, it is paramount to succeeding in a relationship. Tell them they are the only one and you would speedily assume a back seat give them the impression that there are other and they would be wide awake all day looking out for you and making sure you are comfortable.
There are simple ways to create jealousy in women and all of it has to do with bringing in another woman into the picture in a subtle sort of way. This may not be outright double dating, any means through which you bring in another woman into the picture would definitely produce the same effect…create jealousy. No matter how you do it some would love to say you double dated…or flirted but that is one of the only ways to keep women ever longing for you.