It can be very difficult to keep calm in difficult situations. Most people start freaking out when things don’t go the way they want them to go.
A way that you can keep calm in a difficult situation is to step back and analyze the situation as if you were a third party looking in. You must step out of the picture mentally. When you step out of the picture mentally, you can get a better view of coming up with a solution to the problem. The reason that you will most likely come up with a solution to the problem is because you are no longer seeing it as it being your problem. When something affects us we are more vulnerable to the situation. When something affects someone else, we can criticize it easily. The sad thing is that it can be the same situation. People always tend to say things like, “if it were me, I wouldn’t do that.” This is a perfect example.
Things are always better said than done. I can sit here and look at you in the eye and tell you something about a problem, until I am blue in the face. Just because I feel it is a problem, it doesn’t mean that it is a problem for you. People need to relax and stay calm in difficult situations. Staying calm helps you resolve issues, solve problems and give advise to all those involved.
Screaming and yelling to get the point across doesn’t help, it just makes the problem elevate. Keeping a calm voice and killing them with kindness always kind of works. These are my findings and conclusions on keeping calm in a difficult situation.