When you are the one at fault for your break up there is only one way to go about this – you have to face the music sooner or later. You have to swallow your pride, admit your mistakes, and say sorry for what you have done. There is no other way if you want forgiveness.
What you need to do is to evaluate your relationship. What happened to you and your ex to cause the break up?
If you are at fault, do not beat yourself over it. We will not talk about the mistake, but what we need to do is to rectify the mistake by the unavoidable apology.
An apology is something that should be taken into consideration in this matter. When you apologize you say sorry and promise not to make the same mistake again.
It’s not just about saying sorry. It’s about saying sorry and sincerely not make the same mistake again. With an apology, you are making a promise to become a better person if and when you are given a second chance.
You must also consider if your mistake is something that can be forgiven.
Most of the time people think that what they have done cannot be forgiven, yet what they need to do is only try to apologize and be surprised that they can be forgiven. Forgiveness really depends on the level of vindictiveness of a person. There is always hope that you will be forgiven.
So, all you really need to do is try to ask for forgiveness. Do not act desperate and clingy, though. Just give one sincere apology and then go your own way. Time will tell if you are going to be forgiven. Yet, this is the only real way to move forward in the relationship.