There is no one thing that you can say that will make your ex girlfriend come back to you. You have to understand that there are a few things that you will have to say and some words that you will have to put in action if you want to get your ex back. Here is what needs to be done.
“I was wrong”
The first thing that you have to say is to admit that you were wrong. This shows that you are willing to take ownership of your mistakes and are willing to make amends. Admitting that one is wrong takes guts and that is sure to make your ex feel a little better.
“I’m sorry that I hurt you”
Now, you need to make your ex girlfriend see how sorry you are for making the mistakes that you did. You need to tell her that you are sorry that you hurt her. But just saying sorry is never enough. You need to tell her how you feel you have hurt her and how pathetic you feel about doing what you did.
“I was lucky to have you”
Look like you are accepting the break up. Then tell her that you feel that you were truly lucky to have an amazing woman like her in your life. Tell her that your life is truly enriched because of her and it is only because of her that you are the man that you are.
Don’t make negative comments
The chances of your woman getting angry are quite high. At this time she might say stuff that might not hold good but don’t loose your cool and launch into a verbal battle again. Don’t try to tell her what mistakes she made.
Listen to what she has to say
Learn to listen to what she is actually meaning to say to you. She might be brutal in her criticism but you need to understand why she is actually saying what she is saying. Be able to decipher the hurt under her negativity and show her that you understand her.
Never use bad language
No matter how provoked you are you must never use bad language in front of your ex. Tell her instead that you have been truly happy with her. Instead of saying negative things and using bad language you should be very mature in the way you conduct yourself and probably say things like you had the best time of your life with her.
Make her feel wanted
Make your ex girlfriend feel wanted by saying things like you were the luckiest guy in the world as you were with her and that any guy who gets her will be as lucky. Tell her that she is special and is irreplaceable and she will eventually come back to you.