Why Date An Older Woman?
I was seduced by a horny 42-year old mom and wife when I was an 18-year old insurance salesman. Read my no-hold-barred, explicit true story. Links to my true sex confession are at the end of this article.
Cougar dating is now very much in the public arena. Only recently, an older woman dating a younger guy was taboo but an older man dating, courting and marrying a younger woman has always been accepted.
Sure, we take the piss, and joke about the older guy having 1) a nice personality, 2) a large bank balance, 3) a large penis, or 4) about to die, in order to justify why such a young woman wants to hang around with an old codger! But in the end, an older guy with a younger woman is quite socially acceptable.
Mature Dating | Thrills Of Dating A Cougar
One major difference between cougar dating and a younger woman dating an older guy is the issue of commitment. In many cases the older guy will eventually marry his young girlfriend and possible start a family.
While cougar dating is now quite common and there are a lot of cougar singles looking for younger guys, it’s still just a bit of fun for both the older woman and for the young guy! The benefits of dating a cougar are generally confined to having fun in and out of the bedroom.
Dating Older Chicks | Who Is A Cougar?
Cougar singles tend to be financially stable, fit, healthy and mostly attractive divorcees. They’re usually confident, self-assured and sexually aggressive which is extremely appealing to many young guys, me included.
Cougar dating is a turn on for most young guys, called ‘cubs’ because the older woman is not after a long-term relationship. Sometimes it does happen when a cub and a cougar settle into a serious relationship but mostly it’s a mutually beneficial short-term affair.
There are many benefits of dating a cougar for the guy but there’s lots of plus points for the cougar singles too. She can really be herself and enjoy the sexual freedom that she missed out on when she was younger. She can discard with conforming to public perception and be the woman she wants to be. She raised a family and now it’s ‘her’ time to enjoy herself. She’s flattered to be desired by a young, virile, horny, passionate and well equipped (don’t mean to brag, but there it is) man, who is fun to be with and wants to be with her. Disclaimer: I asked three cougars I dated, and all said the same thing.
Date An Older Babe | What’s In It For The Cub?
For the cub, cougar dating offers a great way to learn and perfect skills for treating women in general and puts him in a fabulous position for fulfilling relationship in the future. The cub will learn how to sexually please a woman and to respect and honor her needs and wants. He’ll be a better man!
… And The Cougar?
For the mature lady who doesn’t want to settle down just yet, cougar dating is the perfect way to seek out male company. She can enjoy the cub’s companionship and move on when the relationship has wound down. Both the cub and the cougar have had a fun and fulfilling time with each other.
Dating A Cougar | Closing Thoughts
One word of caution in cougar dating is worth remembering. It’s important to note that both the cub and the cougar are human. When cougar singles and cubs have fun and spend time together, there is every chance that a strong bond will form. Great sex, great company, great laughter, good communication all lead to an emotional connection and, maybe, even love.
If you’re both OK with that, great! But always be clear when cougar dating to communicate where you expect the relationship to go.