What is it that a woman will look for in a compliment? Women don’t want a guy to start in on her about how beautiful she is. Most women already know that they are attractive and if they aren’t then they know you are lying. Remember they have already had plenty of years with out you around and are pretty good judges about when somebody is lying. If you compliment a woman too much then you are putting way too much in value in her hands. She will automatically assume that she is better then you. Now even if she is you don’t want the perception to be what it is. You want her to think that you are the “catch” and that she should be lucky talking to you.
One way to do this is not compliment their appearance but who they are and what they do. It makes a woman feel very important when you are complimenting where they work or a hobby they have.
A couple of examples-
1. “It seems like you have a really awesome job there. I bet that place is lucky to have you.” This makes her feel that she is doing something worthwhile and that you are recognizing it.
2. “I can tell from how you carry yourself that you are great at tennis.” This allows you to compliment her body with out making it painfully obvious.
Women like to feel that they are more than just objects to us. That’s why when you just compliment their beauty then they know what you are truly after. They like to feel that what they are doing is a good thing and when you point it out it just reassures them.
They can get any guy to tell them they are good looking but if your making the right compliments then they will know that are also paying attention to what they are saying.