Everyone knows how to flirt. You know, if you are a woman you bat your eyes, toss your hair and laugh at every dumb joke the guy you like makes, right? Right..:-) Hey it might not be fair, but sometimes being a woman DOES have some advantages! But what about if you are a reasonably average guy and want to approach an UNAPPROACHABLE woman? You know, the kind of beautiful woman who makes every head turn when she enters a room…Whose mere presence in a small crowd makes EVERYBODY stutter and stammer a little bit? Can you keep your cool and actually get closer than you deserve? You sure can – and the following 6 tips are going to give you an UNFAIR advantage against those other guys who still think “come here often” is going to make her motor run..:-)
1) Confidence. If you’ve got it, we like it. A man with Confidence is super sexy – and you won’t EVER see a beautiful woman’s arm around a guy without it.
2) Cool. If you can play it cool, keep a little distance…yet let her know you are in the room, she’s intrigued. You can’t fake this, it’s either there, or it isn’t. If you don’t have it, find someone who does and watch and learn.
3) Comedy. We all love a guy who can make us laugh. Being funny is just about the best quality a guy can have in the long run – it trumps looks, brains and money – but usually, a funny guy has all three of these as well..:-) Keep her laughing and on her toes is a great way to flirt…and is usually VERY successful!
4) Class. Hold the door. And hold your head up. Class is something that just radiates from a man when he has it – and we ALL want to be near you. The world waits for a man who’s got this ineffable quality….And so will we. When you approach her, if you got it, show it off. A classy, flirtatious guy is like a dream come true for a woman who knows what she wants….So show some when you do.
There are lots of ways, off course….some a bit spicier than I share here. But a beautiful woman DESERVES a special soul. And you can learn very EASY ways to make your move, and look like a million bucks when you do, even if you’ve got a helping of quivering nerves under that calm, cool, confident exterior. I know I’d take a closer look!