Giving the compliments is a great and very effective way of establishing a kind/romantic tone in the conversation, if you start off your meeting with few nice comments regarding the looks of your date- this will give both you and her more confidence and will make a meeting success. Be generous when you make the compliments but don’t fake it, a woman feels how you feel, and if you are saying “you look gorgeous dear”, make sure your eyes and the body language say the same thing!
Few awkward moments in the start of your date can be easily neutralized by a pleasant and light chit chat, but please concentrate on your lady. The “weather” or “sports” talk is not going to do good here. Think the way she thinks- and she has been preparing to this meeting for at least couple of hours doing the make up, choosing the outfit, if you just think about it for a second, you would feel how much you appreciate her efforts and you would want to thank her for that- and the best way to do that is say it straightforward!
We all love receiving the compliments, and instead of waiting for somebody to make you a compliment, why don’t you go ahead and do it first! There are few hints on how to make a better compliment that will reach its goal:
1. Make a particular compliments.
“You are wearing such a beautiful necklace”- sounds way better than a general- “you look great today”. The more detailed the compliment is- the better and more effective it is! For a woman who you are talking to this sort of compliment will mean that you are paying attention to how she looks.
2. Make a series of compliments
The Russian saying goes: “One head is good, two heads is better!”, the same thing can be and should be applied to compliments. Don’t stop after you said she had a beautiful necklace, tell her also that it fits her dress or underlines the color of her eyes!
3. Ask a question with a compliment
Now we’ll take the series of compliments and end them with a question like a beautiful cherry completes a cake: “You are wearing such a beautiful necklace! It beautifully fits your dress, where did you find such a beautiful thing (or is it hand made? It looks quite unique!)
Interested to learn more about making compliments which melt the “ice”? Read the second part of this article in the “part 2”!