A lot of men take their break ups so seriously that they lose out on enjoying life. A break up is not the end of your world and when your ex is able to see that they normally come back. Here is what you should do to win her heart back.
Forget the repeated apology
She is obviously annoyed at this moment. How do you think chewing her brains by calling her and badgering her with pleas to forgive you will help? Instead save your breath and energy, give her one good apology and chill.
Get a chilled out new look
You need to be the cool dude if you want to win her heart back. Go all out and please her by getting a look that she always wanted to see on you. It can be funky, crazy or just plain mad. Sometimes doing the most outrageous things makes the other person forget about the wrong that we did.
Let the past go
So, your relationship is over. Move on. Don’t try to relive or recreate that relationship which is over. So, leave the past behind and try to woo your ex just like you did initially. Be innovative, creative and ingenious.
Make her have fun with you
Once she sees how cool you are with the break up, she will also begin to warm up to you. Tell her to spend some time with you. Cajole her till she relents and then make her have a lot of unadulterated platonic fun with you.
Don’t push her
Keep the physical part out of the relationship. Pushing her might just make her a little conscious and remind her of her decision. Let the physicality be a natural progression of things. She will automatically give you her heart when she sees the effort that you are putting in making her happy.
Crack up
Do things that will crack her up. Humor is one thing that always manages to bring people closer so if it’s clowning around or if it’s taking her to a chick flick and enduring the torture, you must do it and win her heart.
Show promise
Make her feel like she is with essentially the same person but minus all the negative aspects that she had felt. If you are able to show her that you have changed for her and are constantly thinking of how to make her happy, then soon you will see that you’ll have won her heart. Being honest and genuine is what you need to do to win her heart for good