The breakup you recently experienced was a horrible affair – harsh words were said, that cannot be taken back – and you now find yourself feeling desperate and miserable. The idea that it is even possible to make your ex miss you seems so ridiculous as to almost be laughable. At this point, you are so depressed that you can hardly handle your day to day affairs without breaking down. But even at this darkest hour, not all hope is lost.
You have to fight a necessary battle between your head and your heart if you want to make your ex miss you. Your heart tells you to do anything possible to get in touch with him or her as soon as possible and beg – plead if you have to – to have another change. But in your head, you know this is not the right idea. This is your chance to be one of the rare few – listen to your head, not your heart, it will be worth it in the long run.
Just a testament to why choosing your head over your heart is that more often than not, even the most heartfelt efforts at reconciliation after a breakup end in failure. The reason is, that right after a split, both you and your ex are hurting, and unfortunately, you are the last person your ex is going to want to see right now. Pushing things will only ensure that you never get him or her back.
See this as an opportunity for a cool down phase – this is something that the both of you need to get to a point where you can have meaningful dialogue anyway. This time apart will give you both time to get over your negative emotions and allow you to remember the good times. During this time, it is likely that this distance is starting to make your ex miss you. While it may be difficult to keep from contacting your ex, stay strong, it will pay off in the end.
You are going to run into your ex while out at some point, so take care every time you leave the house. You don’t want the time you run into him or her to be the time you decided to go out without taking a shower, still wearing the sweats you slept in! Looking your best will further help your efforts to make your ex miss you like crazy.
Sooner or later, they will be chomping at the bit to get in contact with you again, put that silly fight behind you, and give the relationship a second chance.