Are you in a marriage where you’ve got that sinking feeling…where you’re saying my wife can’t stand me?
This is a terrible feeling to have. I know because I had a time not too long ago when I had the same exact feeling.
But I was able to fix it, and I know that you can too.
Exactly What You Need to Do Today If You’re Saying My Wife Can’t Stand Me
One of the things that happens much too often when a husband begins to feel like their wife can’t stand them, or doesn’t love them anymore…is to panic.
Along with this panic they usually do something that’s well…exactly WRONG!
You see, when you have this thought, or are even told by your wife that she can’t stand you, or that being around you makes her sick, or any of the terrible things a wife can say to hurt your feelings in a fit of anger or during a time of indifference…you suddenly feel the need to try and change her mind.
You’ll do that by trying to talk sense into her. You’ll tell her how much you love her. You’ll tell her how much it hurts to hear that. You’ll give her a list of all the great things that you do for her.
Another thing you might do instead of that…and which I’m guilty of…is you’ll get mad. You’ll get mad because you feel you’ve been hurt unjustly. So you’ll start to yell and scream, maybe call names, and say how much you hate HER! You’ll tell her you can’t stand her either. Blah, blah, blah…a bunch of stuff you’ll just feel horrible about later!
It’s all about how you react when your wife can’t stand you…or at least says she can’t
The truth is that if your wife can’t stand you, it’s probably very likely simply because she’s just not attracted to you anymore.
No I don’t mean your looks. It’s okay if you’ve put on some weight. Don’t go out and join a gym because of that. Although, it’s always good to join a gym and take care of yourself. What I mean is that your wife isn’t attracted to you as a man anymore. She’s not attracted to the man that you’ve become.
You’ve likely, with very good intentions trying to please your wife, have become less of an alpha male (if you ever were to begin with) and more of a beta male that she’s unwittingly created out of you.
In doing so you’ve lost the carnal attraction factor that drives not just your wife, but women all over crazy. This is imprinted down deep into their DNA. They are looking for a man who is a leader. A man who knows who he is, and actually a man who DOES NOT need her. Sounds crazy right?
In fact it probably defies everything that you’ve learned probably from your mother, from television, magazines, books, and of course your wife. But the proof lies in the fact of how your wife reacts when you begin to become the alpha male that she is attracted to down to her core. And once that happens you’ll never have to say my wife can’t stand me again.