If you’re like many women, it may be difficult to decipher the signs guys are flirting with you. Even though a guy may not come out directly and tell you he likes you for fear of being rejected, there are subtle clues you can look for to help you determine if he’s interested. By paying attention and carefully observing the men around you, you’ll discover sure signs a guy likes you.
This article will help you understand 3 signs guys are flirting with you. At the end you’ll find an excellent resource to help you become utterly irresistible to the man of your choosing.
Giving You A Hard Time Is His Way Of Saying, “I Dig You.”
A man who is interested in and attracted to you will often give you a hard time, but in a fun, teasing sort of way. His intentions aren’t mean, but instead playful. He’ll try to make you laugh and/or try to get a rise out of you. If he’s successful, you might even playfully slap him or punch his shoulder with a look on your face that says, “Oh no! You didn’t just say that!”
For example, if you’re wearing high heels, he might say something like, “So, what are you, like 4’2″ tall without those heels?” Or if you have a large purse, he might say something like, “Do you have a gun in there? Or maybe a bazooka?” If he’s poking fun at you in this sort of way, then he’s flirting with you. He’s hoping you’ll join in the fun and come back at him.
He Wants To Be The Object Of Your Attention
Another sure sign a guy likes you and is flirting with you is when he attempts to be the object of your attention. Men accomplish this in many ways. If you’re out with a group of friends, you might find him always standing or sitting next to you. When you talk to him, he’ll move in close within touching distance and may even lightly touch your hand, your shoulder, or other innocent places on your body.
As you observe the men around you, remember people move toward things they are attracted to and away from things they dislike. Moving in close to make sure your attention stays on him is one of the sure signs guys are flirting with you.
Singling You Out
A third sign that a guy likes you is if he singles you out of a group. This can be accomplished in several different ways. For example, if you’re in a group of friends, he might specifically say your name and take an interest in you by asking questions to you directly. If he gets up to go get a drink, he might ask you if you want something. Similarly, he might wait until you move away from the group and then approach you.
You may also notice him making eye contact with you a lot. If you find that a guy seems to single you out and spends a lot more of his attention on you than on other people in the group, this is a subtle flirting sign that says, “I dig you. You’ve caught my attention, and I hope I can get some more one-on-one time with you and get to know you better.”